To Alan, on Father's Day

To Alan, in honor of Father's Day:

You say you think you should have been more patient,
Taken time to choose your words with care.
Recalled the sage advice the experts write of
Disciplined with strategy that's fair.

But I know you're a DAD beyond all measure.
Your sacrifice for them is daily seen.
God gave them you - a gift of His own pleasure,
A gift they'll spend their whole life to redeem.

You blame yourself for acting out of anger,
Lamenting that you'll never get it right.
You're sure they see your weakness and your failings,
Despair that all you say is heard as trite.

But I know that you have shown each child a Savior.
You've guided them with compass and a map.
You've given them a chance to make a difference
As they rested in strong arms upon your lap.

You doubt your kids can see the truth of Jesus
Shown clearly in your life each passing day.
You pray they will remember God's own wisdom,
But despair that they might never find the Way.

But I know you are strong and every faithful.
Your heart beats for a lost and hurting world.
My boys see how a real man keeps his promise;
My girls - the flag of ardent love unfurled.

We've been remiss in praising all you do here.
We honor and respect your place as Dad.
You've built our home to weather any crisis.
No words can write the joy. Our hearts are glad.

"I know, my God, that You examine our hearts and rejoice when You find integrity there." I Ch. 29:17a NIV

We love you, honey.